Real Life RAmblings

When Loss Changes More Than Your Circumstances: Who Am I Now?

When Loss Changes More Than Your Circumstances: Who Am I Now?by: Christine L PankaPublished on: 11/08/2026

Loss can change more than your circumstances. Explore identity after loss, the roles you may be outgrowing, and how to begin rediscovering who you are now.

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When Loss Changes More Than Your Circumstances: Who Am I Now?

Why “New Year, New You” Is the Worst Advice for Women in Transition

Why “New Year, New You” Is the Worst Advice for Women in Transitionby: Christine L PankaPublished on: 20/01/2026

For women in transition, “New Year, New You” creates pressure—not healing. A compassionate look at identity, timing, and gentler beginnings.

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Why “New Year, New You” Is the Worst Advice for Women in Transition